b sent me a fb invitation for a background actress thing and I tried to explain it to her that I was very excited first, but then opened a pic of myself and went ‘nope’ in a very nice way; my explanation went like ‘I wanted to but then I remembered my face’ and she went berserk for 10 minutes. and while it is a tested and very useful method when she herself or m say rude things about themselves, it doesn’t work on me at all, and it has the rather unwanted effect of me screaming. into the phone. at midnight. right into her ear.